Tier 1: Foundation of Luxury Household Management

The Cardinal Rule

You should NEVER be more noticeable than the principal. Be impeccable, professional, and entirely invisible in your presence.


Grooming Standards

  • Hair: Clean, neatly trimmed, and professionally arranged at all times during service hours
  • Fingernails: Clean, properly trimmed. No nail polish for operational staff.
  • Breath: Fresh at absolutely all times — use breath mints discreetly if required
  • Body: Freshly bathed every single day. Deodorant worn always.
  • Perfume/Cologne: Absent or extremely subtle — your personal scent must never be noticeable to others in the room
  • Tattoos/Piercings: No visible tattoos and no non-standard piercings during all service hours

Uniform Standards

  • Freshly ironed, completely stain-free, and properly fitted at all times
  • Shoes polished to a mirror shine before every single shift
  • No jewellery beyond one simple wristwatch and one wedding ring
  • Change immediately without hesitation if soiled during service

Posture & Body Language

  • Stand straight, shoulders back — never slouch under any circumstances
  • Hands at sides or clasped neatly behind back when standing at rest
  • Walk with smooth, even, measured steps — never run unless genuine emergency
  • Never lean on walls, furniture, doorframes, or countertops while on duty
  • Stand immediately when a principal or guest enters the room

Zambian Cultural Etiquette

  • Wait for woman to extend hand first. Firm but not crushing handshake.
  • Accept and give ALL gifts and items with BOTH hands and a respectful slight nod.
  • Traditional nshima is eaten with the RIGHT hand. Always wait for the eldest to begin.
  • When introducing: present the junior person to the senior person — never the reverse.
  • Always hold doors open for all principals and guests.

Key Rule: Invisible excellence — perfectly presented, completely professional, never drawing attention from the principal.